Parenting: 14
Gospel Principles That Can Radically Change Your Family by Paul Tripp
(Read spring 2018) This was a really great book! It’s so easy
to think you know what to do with kids, that you’ll never do such-and-such or
yell at your kids… but Paul hones in on the fact that both parents and children
are sinners and need God’s grace to change us. A theme is that parents are
ambassadors of God and can only be used as they are themselves willing to
humbly embrace the difficult task God has set before them. Paul gives practical
examples from his own experience as well as others. How should the law be used?
What role does identity play? How do we teach our children to submit to
authority and rid them of their foolishness? How do we accept our inability and
learn to rest in God who alone has the power to change our children’s hearts?
So much encouragement for parents who are seeking to faithfully raise their
children in the Lord.
“…parents who admit they are inadequate and run to God make
the best parents. You see, he doesn’t ask you to be able; he asks you to be
willing.” (pg. 36)
“Our job is to help our children to be so blown away by
God’s glory that they find joy in submitting to his rule.” (pg. 133)
“Every single thing your child has ever said or done is
rooted in worship… change is not so much about behavioral management, but
worship realignment.” (pg. 150)
In Defense of
Jesus: The New Lawgiver by John Reisinger
(Read summer 2018) I’ve been wanting to read this for quite some time! This book
was written in response to Richard Barcellos’ book, In Defense of the
Decalogue. In his book Barcellos, a Covenant theologian who’s Baptist, addresses
his concerns about New Covenant Theology (NCT) and why he believes it’s not
Biblically accurate. Reisinger responds to these concerns and claims with sound
historical and Biblical arguments. Barcello clearly does not really understand
what NCT really believes, nor does he accurately view history and Reisinger
shows this without a doubt. Who is the supreme lawgiver? Is it Moses as
Covenant Theology claims? Does Jesus just keep and re-affirm the law and make
no changes to it? Or as NCT maintains, does Jesus give new laws and an actual
new covenant? Is the Decalogue (the 10 Commandments) the unchanging moral law
of God? Or was it given to and for the nation of Israel and thus not the
standard for us today? Are those who hold to NCT “without law” as Barcellos and
others think? Regardless of their opponents opinions and arguments, New
Covenant Theology has strong Biblical support and those curious about it and
those who oppose it would be wise to read this book and consider its contents.
“Difficulties [in discussion theology] result when people
insist on using theological terms instead of Biblical terms.” For example, the
Bible nowhere mentions a covenant with Adam. Covenant Theology argues for
several things that are not actually named in Scripture, which is problematic.
Devoted: Great Men
and Their Godly Mothers by Tim Challies
(Read fall 2018) This is a great little book for moms of
boys! Challies introduces us to the mothers of 11 men throughout history, from as
far back as Biblical times to today. It’s inspiring to hear these stories of
mothers who simply trusted God and did their best to teach and train their sons
to follow Christ. Despite some of them being single parents and/or sick or very
busy their prayers and passion for raising their sons was so encouraging. At
the end of each chapter there are also reflection questions.
Set-Apart
Motherhood by Leslie Ludy
(Read winter 2019) This book was so encouraging. The book is
Ccntered around keeping Christ as the focus of your life and relationship with
your children, but gets into some of the practical stuff too. Great tips, good
reminders, funny stories…. Very thankful for this book!
“…when I approach motherhood for the sole purpose of
bringing glory to God, I find tremendous joy in making personal sacrifices for
my children. As I seek to honor Him in my motherhood, it becomes my delight to
give my best to my children, without concern for what I’m getting out of it,
but only with what He is getting out of it.”
“Training, discipline, routine, and structure are important,
but these things are tools that enable me to focus on what matters in
motherhood: building healthy relationships with my children and leading them to
Jesus Christ.”
Vaccines: A
Reappraisal by Richard Moskowitz M.D.
(Read winter/spring 2019) I originally got this book on
kindle, but before I’d finished, I went bought a hard copy as well. It’s one of
THOSE books…. One that you’re going to go back to, for reminders, information,
research, facts…. It’s ALL there. This is incredibly well-researched by a doctor who's been in the field and in research for over 30 years. For anyone and everyone who wants to (or
claims to be) educated on this subject, this is a MUST-READ. If you are
concerned about vaccines, this is a great resource, if you are solidly pro-vax,
there’s facts in it that you HAVE to deal with. So get it and read it.
Currently Reading:
Grace-Based Parenting by Karis Kimmel Murray
Always appreciate your quick reviews and reading lists! If you are looking for a good little theology book that makes you think, I have been studying 1689 covenant federalism and the nuances between Reformed Presbyterian and Reformed Baptist covenant theologies. I just finished "The Distinctiveness of Baptist Covenant Theology: A Comparison between 17th-Century Particular Baptist & Paedobaptist Federalism" by Pascal Denault and it is a very intriguing book. It is deep but short which makes it pretty accessible for its topic. Happy reading!
ReplyDeleteThanks Micah! I'll share that with my husband too I'm sure he'll be interested! :-)
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