It’s been a busy season so I haven’t gotten to update and
post this till now! (But hey, better than the year it was last time!)
Picture Perfect
by Amy Baker
This is a book for people who struggle with perfectionism
and those who want to help them. Maybe you just joke about having OCD
(Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder) but you’re anxious and/or frustrated… life
isn’t going the way you want it to. Or maybe you call it exhaustion – because
you’re wearing yourself out trying to please everyone. To many, it’s an actual
diagnosis of anxiety or OCD. Whatever it is, you’re caught it a cycle of
thinking that you can’t seem to get out of and it’s leaving you anxious,
frustrated and sometimes in despair. How do you change? How can y ou help a
friend or loved one who’s in this situation? This book gives us some case
studies (examples) of individuals who have struggled with perfectionism in
different ways. Is it wrong to want everything to be “just so”? Doesn’t God
call us to be perfect? Yes… but no. God, being perfect, does demand
perfection…. But we cannot deliver. It is only because of Christ that we
receive perfect righteousness…. We cannot achieve this on our own. This book is
full of practical examples and reminders of what it means to struggle with the
tendency to want things “just so” and trusting in God when things don’t go the
way you want. If you live your life seeking for things to go your way you’re
going to dishonor Christ and hurt the people around you. Growth means trusting
God with things that aren’t going the way you’d like and seeking to put others
before your own desires and goals. True success is not meeting your goals (what
you consider good enough), it’s honoring God and loving others.
Seeking Allah,
Finding Jesus by Nabeel Qureshi
This was a really powerful and educational book! Nabeel was
born into a devout Muslim family in Virginia; a part of the Admadis sect of
Islam which makes up a majority of western Muslims, but yet overall it is a
very small minority within worldwide Islam (Shia and Sunni being by far the
largest). Nabeel explains a lot of the theology and worldview of Islam and the
different sects within it. He was well-trained to be devoted to Islam – he had
much memorized from the Quran and from Islamic teaching and also some Christian
Scriptures that are used to defend Islam. He many times shook the beliefs of
Christians he came into contact with. Islam was his whole world and his journey
to discovering Islam’s and the Quran’s true teaching shook his very being. If
you want to understand Islam and/or why Muslims believe as they do, or why they
love Islam and why it’s so difficult for them to see otherwise you need to read
this book. If you have friends/neighbors/acquaintances who are Muslim and you
want to know how to reach them – you MUST read this book. It was extremely
enlightening as to why they are so devoted to their faith, and how western
Muslims view the extremists in the Middle East and elsewhere. How do they
reconcile history with Islam when so much contradicts? How do they not know the
true history of Mohammed? Why is it so difficult for them to leave Islam? Even
faced with all the evidence, Nabeel struggled for months and begged God/Allah
for dreams to show him the truth. God graciously did and made it powerfully
clear that Christianity was the truth, not Islam. It was only then that he had
the courage to embrace Christianity.
This book also reveals the great importance of Apologetics
in defending Christianity and how it can be a powerful tool in bringing people
to Christ. If you do not know why you believe what you believe and be able to
defend it – your faith can be shaken when tested. How grateful Nabeel and other
converts are that there were Christians in their lives who were well trained in
defending Christianity (and who also studied Islam enough to refute it).
Becoming More
by Lysa Terkeurst
This was a good book, very practical. I’m very
theologically-read so this was pretty basic (and not really very deep). But I
so appreciate Lysa’s heart for God and how honest she is about her struggles.
Again, very practical and filled with great reminders! A great one to recommend
to others – especially women who are newer/younger Christians or who are struggling
in their walk with God.
Currently Reading:
Sacred Marriage by Gary Chapmen.
Mike and I are also listening to The Lord of the Rings
trilogy on audio, which has been fun!